Nina's birthday is on 20 Mar. A week before, she has a little celebration with her classmates/friends at Long John Silver, JE.

On actual day, I took half day leave. She has wanted to go K box.

We sing from 2.30 - 7pm. Sam joined us later as he has remedial class.

She sang alots of song which I dun even know the titles. Enjoy singing with them as I get to catch up with the lastest pop songs.

There is this songs sang by 梁静茹，cant remember the title, I hate this song. The MTV is talking about this old man fall in love with the young lady. I found it so disgusting.

After the singing sessions, they went to acarde and I went to buy the durian at Clementi.

This cake is expensieve, 15cm diameter, selling at sgd42.00. But she loves the cake, so just get it for her.

We sing birthday song and cake at 10pm. That end her 13th birthday celebration.


Her favourite durian cake



Nina with her cake


me and Nina

Here I would like to wish her have a good results and may all her wishes come true.

Yesterday my sis went back to visit my dad. While she was back facing the corridor talking to my nephew (6 yrs old), he suddenly told my sis there is someone at the corridor. When my sis look outside, there isn't anyone there. Then my nephew told her, someone outside 走来走去。eeee .... so scary.

Remember when my son was young (4-5 yrs), he also ever pointed to a corner of my previous home, said "Ah Ma". The other incident was at a Thai restaurant at west mall.　While we are having dinner, he suddenly said " 你后面有人“。But the back of my seat was actually a wall. I can't explain why and try to think that he dont mean anything.

Now he has growth up, he actully very timid and scare of gh...

This few days so moody. Everyday work, home, kids. What else can I do? What do I want? What's my goals? Do I go on like this for the rest of my life?

Talk about work, 最大的障碍该是我的半桶水英文。讲也不好，写也不好。琐琐碎碎的事又多。其实也不该complaint la. 上司玛丽对我还不错啦！只是她有时很details,很kiasu. 什么市都要follow procedure,做什么都要black and white,cc 来cc去。就像梁志强的戏所说的，cc 代表 cover cachng. bcc 代表 better cover cachng. Because everything must be black and white, and cc the whole HR team, it become a stress to me, cos I have to write a better and proper English. Can't write short form or casual mail. It become very tedious. Other than that, 都还好。ＳＴＲＥＳＳ！

Home. Now staying with the in law, is convenience, but kids are growing, the house become smaller. The kids dont have a study environment and 4 persons in a room, so many things, so little space. when can I have my own house? The main issue here is not the money, is lots of other thing that I need to consider carefully. The kids arrangement, they have been living with big family since young, will they get use to the quiet home? What if I study or have something on at night, how should I arranged them to? What if they fall sick in the morning, I cant just leave them at home. So many issue, 烦。

And now the kids, how to make them to listen to me? I dont wish to see them to have bad company. I dont want them to get hurt or bully by other. They are too young, the people out there are so 阴险。I have to stop them from hanging out after school, but how to make sure that they dont lie to me? How to make them to be upright person? To have positive thinking? When will they understand that study is important? They have to work hard in order to success? I really dunno how to handle them, I can be talking and talking, telling them what can do, what cannot do,what is good, what is bad, but do they listen? Or just right ear in, left ear out?
I have to try my best, and hope they will understand one day.累

要到什么时候才能走出这烦人的日子！！

一个同事今早病逝了。人生无常，生老病死，听天由命。做人还是别太计较，能吃就吃，能睡就睡。

别想太多，以免自寻烦恼。

人生苦短，何必为了名利，为了升职加薪而给自己太多压力呢。还是及时享乐，开开心心的过日子吧！！！

不过话又说回来，money come with title,有谁会不想要呢？人啊，就是这样矛盾！

Today, Samuel has a medical appointment at Student Healthcare Clinic. This appointment is to check his eyes vision.

The result is, he has colour vision deficiency. CVD is usually an inherited condition. A person with CVD has difficulty in telling certain colours apart. This is due to a defect in the colout-sensitive cells of the eye. Samuel's is red-green deficiency, which mean, at time he is not able to differentiate the colour of red and green.

Not a serious one. He can differentiate green and red seperately, but he got some answers wrong when told to read the number from colourful dots.

I belive most of you has done this test before when you are young. The test looks like this :




Was told by the doctor this was caused by gene. I might be the carrier as my bro also has this problem. CVD can't be cure. The doctor has issue him a certification letter. This letter can be use for "O" level physic exam or army or when he apply for job etc.

Hope this will not affect his future career or life style.

I have changed my blog skin again. The previous one is too galish and have some techical problem, this one looks much better. Nina did this for me. She is really good at this. All the links to those who blog are back. In addition, now my blog also come with chat box where people can leave me message and also with songs.

Thank you Nina, u are wonderful.